The Ultimate Guide to Camera Shy Couples Photography in NYC

Let’s get this straight at the beginning: you don’t have to be loud, extroverted, or super affectionate in public to have beautiful, authentic photos. If you’re a couple who tends to freeze up the moment the lens is pointed at you, believe us, you’re not alone. Over the years, we have had the opportunity to work with so many camera-shy couples, and that changed nothing regarding the quality of the photos they received. We've done it all to master camera shy couples photography.

At All The Feels, we love working with people just like you: maybe shy, maybe quiet, introverted, or just awkward in front of the camera. We love it. The truth is that photography isn’t about performance: it's about presence. And not so deep beneath your quiet presence, gentle love, and quiet laughs, is the place where the real magic lives.

It’s totally normal to feel a bit nervous about your photoshoot. In fact, most people aren’t naturally comfortable in front of a camera, and with all the emotions and pressure that come with planning your big day, it’s easy to feel panicked and withdrawn.

The good news? We really enjoy working with couples at every level of confidence, bringing out the best in each and every one of them. Since we have years of experience capturing all kinds of couples, we’ve come up with a unique approach for those camera-shy lovebirds out there. Below, you will discover our tried and tested introvert-friendly tips and tricks to help make your photography experience truly enjoyable.

First Things First: Let’s Ditch the Myth That You Need to Be "Photogenic"

We understand that you are probably starting to feel anxious as the day of your NYC photoshoot approaches.

Your Pinterest inspiration board is surely full of bold, dramatic, cinematic photos with couples who look like professional models. And if you’re camera shy, it’s easy to worry you might not end up looking as great in your photos as the couple in your inspo photo. But the truth is, there’s no such thing as a photogenic personality. Great photos aren’t about being loud or larger than life. They’re about being authentic, and authenticity looks different for everyone.

For many people out there, be it for a couple or a personal photoshoot, being in front of the camera isn’t something they’re used to on a daily basis. You might feel awkward in front of the camera, unsure of what to do with your hands, or like the whole experience is going to be uncomfortable from start to finish. But, we promise you, it doesn’t have to be that way. In fact, with the right NYC wedding photographer, your photography session will not only feel natural but also enjoyable.

Details Matter!

Choosing a location that feels familiar and comfortable makes a big difference when photographing camera shy couples. Whether that’s your favorite cafe, a New York City landmark spot like Central Park, your cozy living room, or somewhere quiet without a lot of people around, as experienced NYC photographers, we’re always happy to help pick a spot that suits your vibe.

And when it comes to what to wear, we say keep it simple: just wear what makes you feel like yourself. Confidence comes from comfort, not from trying to look like someone else. We will send you some ideas and inspirations too.

And although this will probably sound like a very obvious tip, try to be as relaxed as possible. Take a moment to pause, take a deep breath, and just let yourself unwind and think of things that make you excited: your favorite vacation or a dream destination you’re planning, a favorite food, your pet: anything that brings you comfort and a smile.

Before heading off with your photographer for those special portraits, it helps to step away from the whirlwind this day brings and enjoy a quiet moment with your partner. Chat, laugh, hold hands, and just do whatever feels natural to reconnect and settle your nerves: this will already be half of the job (and more!) of being in front of the camera. When you start your romcom photoshoot feeling relaxed and grounded, the whole thing becomes easier and way more enjoyable.

Candid Photography: The Style and Approach We Swear By

At All The Feels, prompted and candid photography are at the heart of everything we do, which is the key to seizing the most beautiful moments, even for the camera-shy subjects, brides and grooms, and all in between. We believe the most special moments aren’t posed; they emerge out of the secret whispers, the spontaneous laughter, and all the in-between moments when you’re simply being yourselves and interacting with each other.

Our approach is relaxed and natural, allowing us to easily guide you without ever forcing a moment. We’re here to create a casual environment for you to simply be, so we can bring out who you truly are, in the most unique and beautiful way.

You won’t start your NYC photoshoot by having the camera pushed in your face. Instead, we try to get to know you better. Our sessions are never about forcing anything. We don’t rush, we don’t shout directions, and we definitely don’t expect you to know what you’re doing. We use gentle advice to help you connect in ways that feel familiar, not forced.

We might suggest you take a walk, hold hands like you would on a lazy Sunday, or whisper something sweet (or silly) to each other. The photos that come from those moments are always the ones that feel the most real.

We’ve worked with so many camera-shy couples who were concerned about our workflow on the day. We want you to understand that it’s okay if you’re not into public affection. It’s okay if you’re not sure where to look or how to stand. You don’t need to perform. We’re not documenting perfection, we’re documenting connection.

Your love might be soft-spoken, but it still shines. And we will make sure to capture every single ray.

So, whether you’re camera-shy, introverted, or just a naturally quiet couple, please know that there is space for you in front of the camera, exactly as you are. You don’t need to fake anything, as long as you have the right person to guide you.

We invite you to let us help you create something beautiful, natural, and true to who you are. Don’t hesitate to contact us and we’ll discuss everything in detail!

Frequently Asked Questions About Camera Shy Couples Photography

• How can I prepare for a photoshoot if I'm camera shy? Start by choosing comfortable clothes and a familiar location. Talk to your photographer about your concerns: we will guide you gently. Also, plan a little time beforehand to relax with your partner.

• Can introverted couples still get great candid photos? Absolutely! Introverted couples often shine in candid photography because they’re naturally present and emotionally connected. You don’t need to pose, you just need to be yourselves.

• What if I don’t like public displays of affection? That’s totally fine. Your photographer will work with your comfort level and suggest natural, low-pressure moments to capture your connection without forced PDA.

• Can this approach work for engagement or personal photoshoots too? Yes! This relaxed, candid style works for all types of sessions: whether it’s an engagement, anniversary, proposal, or just because. It’s perfect for anyone who wants meaningful, natural photos without the awkwardness.